Here’s the thing, it sounds like you are selecting your 48 year old boyfriend as a “Provider” and not so much out of sexual desire and attraction. And why wouldn’t you, he’s probably got a stable job with money, he’s good with the kid and likely to be an excellent family man, no doubt. Of course, that’s because it’s all he can do. The guy is more than twice your age, why hasn’t he been in a relationship?

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Yes, you avoid all of those things, which all have various levels of risk, but what’s the point if you don’t get to enjoy sex. Sometimes it’s worth taking a minimal risk in order to get a greater reward. I could avoid the risk of being hit by car by locking myself in my apartment for my entire life, but that would really suck. I’d rather go outside and take a minimal risk of being hit by a car in order to enjoy exploring the world. See what I’m saying?

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That’s a nice little rant you have there and do agree with some of what you say, which also corresponds to things I was talking about in the original post. You’re right is a head game and all those involuntary virgins out there certainly need to take pride in themselves, keep a high self-esteem, etc. However, for a lot of guys, it’s not easy to have a lot of self-worth when women are constantly rejecting you, creating a negative feedback loop, hence the “Virginity Catch 22.”

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Maybe a lot of guys out there have low self-esteem about not getting laid. And honestly some women will not respect a man who doesn’t respect himself. So you need to change the way you look at yourself and turn it into a strength first and foremost. Because no matter how much you get laid, in the end the guys with this mentality will end up alone, because their lacking some major qualities. The type of qualities that will enable a long lasting and loving relationship. Such as honesty, integrity, being supportive, understand and trustworthiness.

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This is a very cynical and disturbing comment. It sounds to me like you’ve reached that point in your life where you are so frustrated that you are writing off sex completely. And now, as evidenced by your comment, you come up with all kinds of reasons to justify living a life without sex. Sure you won’t die if you don’t get laid, you won’t pass on your genes, you won’t have to deal with the difficulties of a sexless marriage later in life, etc. You are essentially saying that sex is a useless endeavor in the big picture of things… maybe you’re right. However, I think you are missing the whole point of sex on it’s most basic and natural level, that of a pleasurable, intimate, gratifying experience with a good woman! For that reason alone, in my opinion, is certainly worth the pursuit.

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